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MAKE A FAMILY MEMORY
Most of us get so busy with the holiday and preparing for the barbeques, picnics, going to the beach or lake... that we forget that this day became a Holiday so that we would take time out to REMEMBER those special men and women who gave their lives so that our families can live in a FREE country.
As you share this page and read the stories, poems and see the pictures, take the time to share stories that you remember of friends and family that died in a War. This is a great time to tell about a grandfather who fought in World War II, a great grandfather who served in World War I or maybe a great great great grandfather who fought in the Civil War.

How do you have a Memorial Service for a loved one who has died?
You
can visit their Grave and take some fresh flowers 
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We Remember! candle by Web Lady
Flags
are used to decorate the graves on Memorial Day. When
flying the flag, it should be flown at half-staff until noon.
More
information can be found at: Why do we celebrate Memorial Day and
Veterans Day? Memorial Day honors the American
Military who have died in their service for the country. Veterans Day: Is to appreciate all who
have served their country both alive and dead. The
Army describes the two holidays at this page: ~US Army Page~ What is the purpose of Memorial Day? "Logan
instructed Army installations to decorate graves and conduct
special services as circumstances permitted. The general wrote
the celebration had two purposes, other than honoring war
undivided republic, and to renew our nation's pledge to assist
the soldier's and sailor widows and orphans." Memorial Day, also called Decoration Day, is a patriotic
holiday in the United States. It is a day to honor Americans who
gave their lives for their country. Originally, Memorial Day
honored military personnel who died in the Civil War (1861-1865).
The holiday now also honors those who died in any war while
serving the United States.
Memorial Day Flag Etiquette

US Flag Code (36 US Code 10)
Aren't they the same thing?
~From US Army Page~
Since the end of World War I, Memorial Day has also been Poppy
Day. Volunteers sell small, red artificial poppies in order to
help disabled veterans. In recent years, the custom has grown in
most families to decorate the graves of loved ones on Memorial
Day.
Eternal God,
Creator of years, of centuries,
Lord of whatever is beyond time,
Maker of all species and master of all history --
How shall we speak to you
from our smallness and inconsequence?
Except that you have called us to worship you
in spirit and in truth;
You have dignified us with loves and loyalties;
You have lifted us up with your lovingkindnesses.
Therefore we are bold to come before you without groveling
(though we sometimes feel that low)
and without fear
(thought we are often anxious).
We sing with spirit and pray with courage
because you have dignified us;
You have redeemed us from the aimlessness
of things' going meaninglessly well.
God, lift the hearts of those
for whom this holiday is not just diversion,
but painful memory and continued deprivation.
Bless those whose dear ones have died
needlessly, wastefully (as it seems)
in accident or misadventure.
We remember with compassion those who have died
serving their countries
in the futility of combat.
There is none of us but must come to bereavement and separation,
when all the answers we are offered
fail the question death asks of each of us.
We believe that you will provide for us
as others have been provided with the fulfillment of
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."

Eulogy for a Veteran
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush,
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
Author Unknown
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the Gentle autumn rain.
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight,
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
I am not there, I did not die.

War Memories (1941) by J.E.Miles
Silently waiting for their Captains command,
Into the thick of it, a cry of dismay,
The battle is over, the victory is complete,
The burial squad set forth upon its given task,
these brave fighting soldiers of second brigand.
There goes the order, they repeat the shout,
"Over the top men, everyone out!"
for many are wounded in this bloody fray.
Battle after battle, takes place all around,
then suddenly it is silent we don't hear a sound.
and the remainder of the enemy surrender in defeat.
But what of the dead comrades who died so in vain,
and the wounded soldiers suffering in pain.
such a price to pay for victory, "Is it right,"
we ask? No music nor glory accompanies this chore,
In search of fallen buddies, victims of war.

I watched the flag pass by one day.
I looked at him in uniform
I thought, how many men like him
I heard the sound of taps one night,
I wondered just how many times
I thought of all the children,
I thought about a graveyard
God Bless America
It fluttered in the breeze
A young Marine saluted it, and then
He stood at ease.
So young, so tall, so proud
With hair cut square and eyes alert
He'd stand out in any crowd.
Had fallen through the years?
How many died on foreign soil?
How many mothers' tears?
How many Pilots' planes shot down?
How many foxholes were soldiers' graves?
No, Freedom is not free.
When everything was still.
I listened to the bugler play
And felt a sudden chill.
That taps had meant "Amen"
When a flag had draped a coffin
of a brother or a friend.
Of the mothers and the wives,
Of fathers, sons and husbands
With interrupted lives.
at the bottom of the sea
Of unmarked graves in Arlington.
No, Freedom isn't free!!
Author Unknown

"... from these honored dead, we take increased devotion to that cause for which they here gave the last full measure of devotion -- that we here highly resolve these dead shall not have died in vain...

~Abraham Lincoln, Gettysburg Address~
To read more about the song "Taps" Click Here
This Memorial page was in the May Issue of: Just 4 Kids Magazine



From the beaches of Normandy to Iwo Jima, Korea, Vietnam and Kuwait, millions of American men and women risked death or lost their lives during the great wars of the 20th century. Their sacrifice and unwavering pursuit of freedom has not been forgotten.
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